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Ladies I need some advice. My marriage has been over for two years, we have a 3 1/2 year old son and I’m a stay at home mom. I’m an idiot for marrying him in the first place because I believed his words over his actions and always believed in the good in him. He’s abusive and as soon as we got married his narcissistic sociopathic lies revealed themselves more than ever and my eyes were finally opened that this has never been about me, it’s about him getting what he wants and trapping me. He’s never ever going to change and after being completely destroyed and depressed I’ve picked myself back up, am stronger than ever and ready to move forward with my life and my son. 

Here’s the issue, he’s in full control over the money and refuses to pay the deposit to enroll my son in preschool so that I can get a job. He knows that once I am earning money then I’m able to move out. Any money he gives me goes straight to our home, bills and son and it’s never enough so he’s crippling me and making me rack up credit card debt to cover what he shorts me on and keeps reneging on what he promises. What do I do to get out of here?!!!

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First of all you need someplace safe to go where he can't find you... Pack up you and your son and go to a Domestic Shelter that can help you with all the things you want to do, childcare, job, housing....the main thing is to STAY SAFE AND PROTECTED.....,You need to get this set up and get out while he is at work..

STAY SAFE AND BE CAREFUL....DO NOT LET HIM FIND OUT YOU ARE PLANNING TO LEAVE
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