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I need some serious advice... I'm just at a loss. 
I have a relative who is very close with my 7 year old daughter. Her & her husband have been heavily involved in her life since she was a newborn & we lived with them for the first 3 years of her life. Her husband drinks a lot, so they're constantly in "family" bars (like Bdubs, Hooters, etc...) with her when they have her.. which is fine except he's always drunk & so are the people who sit with them 99% of the time & when they aren't in the bars, they're at their house with her letting her have whatever she wants & always spoiling her to the point it's affecting her moods. She comes home entitled, usually with unnecessary gifts or candy from this person & threatening to call them whenever she gets in trouble. When she goes to their house, if she's gotten any kind of discipline, she's "snitching" on us for it to this person & I get questioned about it over text or when I pick her up as if it's their business or I'm supposed to just let her do whatever with no consequences. She has her around drunks & arguments between her & her husband all the time, but if I so much as scold her for bad behavior I'm "abusing" her. My relationship with this person has been strained for years, but in the last year I've just been so over it. She's controlling, manipulative, refuses to admit when she's wrong, ALWAYS plays the victim & now I feel as if my child is at an age where she's having a negative influence on her as well as on my overall mentality. I want to sever the relationship altogether, but idk how to do that when my daughter loves her & her husband so much. I know it will hurt her. She sees them every Tuesday & Friday & spends part of the weekend with them at least once a month. Even my SO is annoyed by the passive aggressive comments she makes & how she's always in our business. We got a letter from one of her teachers last week saying she seems to be "used to having her way" & it reflects in her behavior in class... She does not get her way at home (if undeserved or unreasonable) & we are actually pretty strict with her, so I know this behavior is being learned from time with them. We even notice her behavior differences when she gets home from being there vs having been home for a couple of days since her last visit. I'm worried her education & overall being in the future could be compromised by their influence... but if you let them tell it, I'm the horrible influence  the mind games are ridiculous. I'm 23. I own my own house & my own car, have a good job, I don't do drugs... yet somehow she always has a disapproving comment to make about my life. She's extremely passive aggressive & resentful it seems. It's just taking a huge toll on me these days & I don't want that to be my daughter's future too. It's seriously been mentally exhausting for me all these years & I'm at my breaking point. My SO says that if she can't have a healthy relationship with them there should be no relationship at all; same goes for me & them... which I agree with. 
I don't know what to do. Please help. I just need advice on how to handle the whole situation.

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Get RID of those toxic people! It's only going to get worse and before you know it, they will be her best friend and not in any way a roll model, you will be the bad guy, and thier influence on her is already strong obviously. So please take my advice and sever cold turkey. Of course it will bother your little one because she is already attached, but YOU are her mother, whom they and your daughter needs to respect as so. You do not want them in any way to have that much of an influence on your daughter when she's older. Trust me. I have a 23 year old daughter that doesn't speak to me nor let's me see her two sons because she somehow lost her respect for me due to other "parents" getting in her ear and trying to tell her that I'm not worthy of her respect! Well guess what??? I am/was the same way you are. No drugs nor drinking, kept her clothed the best I could, always had a roof, food on a hot plate, clothes, and love, and because I wasn't her "best friend" instead of a role model and other people/parents weren't as strict as I was, and drank with her, etc...I turned out to be the worst mom in the world to her. Please don't let these people have this much control over you and YOUR decisions as a caring parent, because they will eventually have control over what your daughters outlook on you. I raised my children alone and did the very best i could, my other two children 25 and 10 respect and love me, they know And tell me that im a great mother! Good luck