How do you deal with your mom being back on drugs. Me and my bio mother have never had a good relationship. She abused me. Put me in the hospital and has called me every name in the book. I've tried for many years to fix our relationship but have come to the point that i dont think its able to be fixed. I've lived with other family members and ended up in foster care for my whole life. I'm 21 now. She is on meth heroin and smokes weed. She told me she was cleaned but lied about it. She now lives in a drug house. I don't know what to do to help her. She told me I was dead to her on Christmas because I didn't tell her about my graduation date. (My social worker at the time told me to keep good health people in my life) I haven't seen her in a couple months now and it hurts.